In your 20s, dating often felt like a casting call. You tried to be the "cool girl" who didn’t mind vague plans. You tried to be the "patient guy" who waited three days to text. You performed the version of yourself you thought would be most lovable.
If you are a lover over 30—or considering becoming one—let me reassure you: You haven’t missed the boat. You’ve simply graduated to the advanced course. alover 30
The most dangerous habit of young love is the rescue fantasy. *"He’s a project, but I can save him." "She’s chaotic, but my love will calm her down." In your 20s, dating often felt like a casting call